Motivational Monday

Hey you!

I had one of probably the worst nights sleeps i've ever had last night and woke up feeling pretty groggy and unmotivated but i thought, no you're not just going to mope around feeling sorry for yourself you're going to get up and go to the gym then carry on with your jobs for the day and i'm so glad i did. Otherwise, i'd probably still be in my quilt cover cocoon nest watching videos of puppies on youtube and eating my sorrows away (how dramatic). I also made the most delicious breakfast that was bright purple, it's the little things that please me so!

I heard this quote a little while ago and since then i have heard a couple more people say it and it has just stuck in my head as if i was meant to be told it. I have never been the most confident person in the world and i'm sure everyone can relate to this in some way or another whether it is in your appearance, personality, career or just your overall self being. Until recent i have always just accepted that this was who i am, i am the quiet girl who doesn't talk much in groups of people and who will bow her head when walking into a busy setting but something clicked when i heard this quote and i thought.. " why does this have to be me? who said this is who i am? i'm just basing my personality on how other people see me but really, it isn't me at all and it's not how i want to carry on living my life. " 

I am so thankful for this to have happened as since then i have done nothing but take control of my life, become more confident and reach a point in my life where i am so happy that i feel nothing can drag me down, it's only up from here!

Whilst i don't agree with being a "fake" person, there is so much truth in the quote. If you pretend that you are the most confident person in the room people will believe you and start seeing you as this happy, confident bundle of joy that brightens the room when you enter it. Your mood rubs off onto others around you extremely quickly but if you become this positive energy then you will begin to draw more positive things towards you and trust me your life will begin to just get better and better! I'm not in any way some sort of life coach or positive speaker but i have made the changes in my life that i've talked about and they have worked so well that i just have to share them tips with you, sharing is caring after all.. right?!

I apologise if this is a bit too deep for a Monday morning but i had to get that off my chest, is there anyone dealing with low confidence at the moment? if so, make this day, week, month and year the time to change that, take hold of your life, go after what you want and make the world yours!

Happy Monday :)